Over the next few weeks (maybe months depending on how inspired I get) I am going to be developing a lesson series called defining moments for my youth kids. Hopefully I will have the time to get them typed and uploaded each week. That is the plan anyway. My intent is to change the format so that they are more in a sermon style, than a lesson style, so if it feels like I am jumping quickly sometimes, be patient.
Week 1: Opening your eyes
If asked, We could all come up with something that we know to be 100% true. Probably several things if we sat and thought about it for a while. Examples would be things like Gravity (if I let go of this pen in my hand it will fall), or that if I smack someone for no reason, they will undoubtedly be upset with me. I am sure you could come up with a list of things that are 100% true, but I bet after you were finished, there would be nothing on your list that upset you. Why? Because we like to ignore the truths that upset us, make our lives difficult, or generally conflict with our way of life. For example, The fact that God despises the sin that you committed last night, probably did not make your list.
In this new series called defining moments we are going to be looking at some of these difficult truths to find out what we can learn from them. First let's tackle this: What is a defining moment? A defining moment is a moment in our lives when we come face to face with a truth that we, either never knew, or a truth that we have kind of purposely forgotten.
And suddenly when we are faced with this truth, our lives are transformed forever.
-Our view of relationships
-Our view of our friends
- Our view of God
- Our view of Life
- Our view of "Whatever" is changed forever
Sometimes it is a truth we have never heard before, and it instantly hits home with us. Sometimes it is a truth we were raised with, or have known for a while, And it had become an "inconvenient truth." An inconvenient truth is something that interferes with our lifestyle, or our goals and dreams. It is something that is true about our life, but we don't want to admit it. We know it is true, we just don't want to bring it front and center, because it gets in the way of the direction we selfishly want to go.
I want to tell you a story about a man named Charles. Charles is a farmer outside of Atlanta, GA. He was out on his tractor pulling a bush hog. If you don't know, a bush hog is basically an industrial sized lawn mower. It is an extension on the back of a tractor with huge blades meant to clear out a property so seeds can be replanted. Well Charles is Bush hogging his property, and he hit a bees nest. so he jumped off his tractor in a panic and left it in gear. He walked along beside it for a while until all of the bees left, and went to jump back on. He grabbed the steering wheel and went to put his foot on the step, but he missed the step and slid underneath the tractor. The last thing he said he remembered were the huge tires rolling over his legs, and they were followed by the sled with all of the blades on it. Charles knew men who had dies bush hogging properties, because, as we can plainly see, it can be very dangerous. He passed out because of the pain and the weight.
He awoke just a few seconds later, and was looking up at the sky. He said he couldn't feel his legs, and as he looked to his left he saw the bush hog disappear into a ditch and stall out. Then, almost afraid to look, he sat up, and his legs were untouched. He whispered a prayer of thanksgiving and stood up. Then he fell to his knees again, and had a worship service in the middle of his field. He stood up, took a few steps, and fell to his knees again. he got to the gravel driveway in front of his home, and he dropped to his knees and had another worship service, and thanked his Heavenly Father for a new gift of life, and a new opportunity. He went inside, and called all four of his kids and told them how much he love them. And if you were to talk to Charlie today, he would look you in the eye and tell you "I have no problems." It was a defining moment for him. The truth that life can be short, and we are not invincible was brought front and center in his life. And from this moment on, his life would never be the same.
The problem for most of us, is that there are some truths that we just really don't want to know. Mostly, because they bother us. Honestly, those of you who are in a relationship; you don't really want to know every little flaw about that person do you? "No! Don't Tell Me! LaLaLaLaLa! Leave me with the illusion that they are perfect." You have decided that this relationship is God's will for your life, and that is all that matters. The rest: "I don't want to know! I don't want to listen!" Because hearing that may mes sup my dream and my plan. so we push the truth to the side. But wouldn't it be a good idea to have all of the facts before you decide to spend the rest of your life with this person?
33They answered him, "We are Abraham's descendantsb]">[b] and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?"
34Jesus replied, "I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37I know you are Abraham's descendants. Yet you are ready to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38I am telling you what I have seen in the Father's presence, and you do what you have heard from your father.c]">[c]"
39"Abraham is our father," they answered.
"If you were Abraham's children," said Jesus, "then you wouldd]">[d] do the things Abraham did. 40As it is, you are determined to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41You are doing the things your own father does."
"We are not illegitimate children," they protested. "The only Father we have is God himself."
If you hold to My teachings, the truth will set you free. This is what Jesus tells them, and us. He doesn't simply say follow, Jesus says Hold. I think He used this word to show that it would not be an easy thing to do. The word hold symbolizes a tight grip, or a tough situation. Let's look at it this way- When you have been in a dark room for a long time, and you step out into the light, what happens? The light is almost blinding. Your eyes have adjusted to the darkness, and as soon as that light shines in, it is painful. If I were to ask you which is easier to see in, the light or the darkness... you would instantly say the light. But before you walked out, your eyes had adjusted, and you saw pretty well in the dark. and after you had been there for a while, it was probably pretty comfortable in the dark. and walking out would hurt my eyes, and it is painful, so I think I am just going to stay here in the dark where it is comfortable. The truth that Jesus reveals is often like a blinding light that hits us while we are in the darkness, and if we will just stay in the light, and hold to the truth, eventually our eyes will adjust and we will be able to see better.
Look at the encounter Jesus had with the jewish people in the temple. Jesus Told them that if they held to His teaching, the truth would set them free. What was their response? They Scoffed, and said "We are Abraham's descendants and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?" Did anyone besides me laugh a little when they read that? We've never been slaves to anyone? They are slaves to Rome at this exact moment! Not to mention the years they spent under Babylonian control! And surely they haven't forgotten abuot a little place called Egypt that Moses came and led them out of by parting th Red Sea. But their serious response was "We have never been slaves to anyone." Wow! Way to go on that one guys. Very convincing. You can't fault them too much, though. They are just blindly following their culture, just like we do. Their culture told them that, because they were Jewish, they were God's Chosen People. Meaning That They are free because of their Lineage, because "Abraham was their father." Another Distortion of the truth about God. What Jesus is telling them is that they are, in fact, just like everyone else, and that all people are going to be judged equally. What is their response? "Ooh! Oww! That is Bright! I can't handle the bright light, so I am just going to walk back into the darkness where I am more comfortable. Let me just stay here in what I believe. My reality is more comfortable than the actual truth, so I am just going to stick with it. I wonder how judgment went for those guys?
To see the truth, and embrace it, we have to step out into the light, even though it hurts for a minute. In the long run it makes it easier to see, and the ability to see clearly makes life go so much smoother. If you hold to the Teachings of Jesus, you eyes will adjust, and you will see things more clearly than you ever have before.
Over the next few weeks, we are going to look at Jesus' encounters with several different people. We'll see how it was a defining moment that changed their life if they were willing to step out of the darkness, and stepped into the light. We will see what we can learn from their experiences.
