Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Defining moments: Week 2- Distortions
Last week we were introduced to the idea of defining moments. If you remember, we said a defining moment happens when a truth, either a new truth, or a forgotten or pushed aside truth, comes front and center in your life, and changes things. It changes the way you think or feel about something. Maybe it changes the way you act, or your outlook on life. Everyone has had defining moments. Here are some ideas if you are struggling with this.
- Divorce. Anyone who is a child of divorce, or anyone who has ever been through a divorce can easily say that it is life changing. A very prominent person in your life is no longer there in the same way. The truth that you and your spouse, or that your parents, either could not live together, or that they placed a higher importance on something other than their marriage comes front and center, and the life you know is about to change. It will be a defining moment for the rest of your life.
- Have you ever lost a close friend, or a loved one? Anyone who has lost someone they cared about, someone who was a big part of their daily lives, is going to feel great sorrow when they are gone. It changes the way we operate on a daily basis. This is a defining moment, because the life you knew before has changed, and it is never going to be like it used to be.
Think of a time where something happened in your life that changed your thinking or your approach to life.
What was it?
Today, we are going to talk about distortions.
A distortion is something that makes the truth unclear. It is something that comes along and blurs the picture, or makes it fuzzy, so that you can't see it clearly. People do things all the time because their view of life, or of God is distorted. Distortions can severely mess up your life.
- Look at Money driven people. Our world is full of them. All around you you can see people who base their entire life, and their entire self worth on making money. It is the single thing that drives them. Making money is the only way they know how to measure success. Maybe you are one of them. Is money really what you want to base your entire life on?
- Our world is also full of pleasure seeking people. People just out for themselves, just trying to get to their next fix. For some people that pleasure is a gambling addiction. For some it is drugs or alcohol. For some people it is a sexual pleasure. For some it is belittling others to make themselves feel superior. For all of them, however, it is putting a higher importance on self gratification than anything else in life. It is the "I want it all, and I want it now!" mentality. Not a healthy way to live life.
- How about the arena of terrorism? Distortions drive terrorists. If you press them to find out the truth behind why they did the things they did, in every case they say "Because I believe that God- blah blah blah" It all comes back to what they believe about God. "I believe that God hates these things, so God sanctions this, and God wants me to go kill all of the infidels that are breaking his laws." It is all about God.
Right now there is a woman in Africa awaiting trial, and she could be put to death. Do you know why? Because she had a baby out of wedlock. The sentence for this in her tribe is death. Why? We think: "How can they be so harsh?" Well, they would say that she has broken God's law, and God demands that she dies. And I know you are sitting there thinking, "That's not my God!" But hey, maybe it is. There is only one God. The problem is that so many people have a distorted image of that one God, and that distorted image is what dictates their actions. Their messed up picture of God determines what they do. They are doing things based on a blurry picture, a distorted truth. When you can't see the picture clearly, you almost always come to the wrong conclusion, and we as people do this every day. now I know you guys are not out blowing up buildings, but sometimes we are guilty of following distortions, as well. But everywhere there is a distortion about God, there is some kind of consequence. So every once in a while, in God's grace and in God's mercy, He brings truth front and center. And just like we talked about last week, if you will stand in the light of those truths for a while, and not retreat back into the darkness where is is comfortable, your eyes will adjust, and there is potential for God to change your life.
Remember Jesus walked into this kind of a world. A world where there was massive confusion about God. And Jesus shows up, and says: "I have come to explain God." Jesus spent His entire life performing miraculous signs, and helping people, and answering their questions before they asked, and telling them things about themselves that only they themselves knew. But He didn't do it to glorify himself. No, Jesus said "I have come from the Father, to explain the Father to you, because He doesn't want to remain a mystery." God wants the confusion to go away. He wants you to know Him for who He is, and not who you have imagined He is, not who you have made Him up to be, not who you have been told He is. Over and over Jesus encountered people, and taught truth about God, and lives were changed for ever.
Today we are going to talk about a man that was confronted with an uncomfortable truth. He gets blinded by a truth that made him want to scramble back into the darkness of what he had always known and believed. This truth did not sit well with him at all, and it may not sit well with some of you either. Are you ready for the truth that was so hard to grasp, so hard to handle, so hard to accept? Here it is:
"Good people don't go to heaven.
Good people don't have the promise of eternal life.
Good people will never necessarily enter the Father's Kingdom."
What? How does that make sense? Let's look at a story about Nicodemus.
John 3: 1-17
1Now there was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a member of the Jewish ruling council. Let me stop here for just a second. Nicodemus was a member of the Jewish Ruling Council. This is a group of Jews that represented the people of Israel to Rome, and also, Rome to the people of Israel. they were the Liaison between the two. Rome ruled over Israel, and they had set up a governor who ruled and taxed the people. Rome used the Jewish leaders to communicate to the common people in Palestine. So Nicodemus has a really important job. his Job is to keep the people happy with Rome, and to keep Rome happy with the people. As long as he and his buddies did a good job, Rome paid them very well. as long as the people were calm, and everyone was paying their taxes, everyone was happy. The Roman Governors paid the Jewish leaders well to keep the peace and make their job easy. So here is Nicodemus, rich, important, knows the scriptures, trusted by the people as a Jewish Leader. This is the guy that is coming to see Jesus. The last thing he wants is a new religious leader causing an uprising and getting Rome's attention. Let's read on.
2He came to Jesus at night and said, "Rabbi, we know you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the miraculous signs you are doing if God were not with him."
3In reply Jesus declared, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again.[a]"
4"How can a man be born when he is old?" Nicodemus asked. "Surely he cannot enter a second time into his mother's womb to be born!"
5Jesus answered, "I tell you the truth, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit. 6Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit[b] gives birth to spirit. 7You should not be surprised at my saying, 'You[c] must be born again.' 8The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit."
9"How can this be?" Nicodemus asked.
10"You are Israel's teacher," said Jesus, "and do you not understand these things? 11I tell you the truth, we speak of what we know, and we testify to what we have seen, but still you people do not accept our testimony. 12I have spoken to you of earthly things and you do not believe; how then will you believe if I speak of heavenly things? 13No one has ever gone into heaven except the one who came from heaven—the Son of Man.[d] 14Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the desert, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, 15that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life.[e]
16"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,[f] that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
First off, notice that Nicodemus called Jesus "Rabbi." Rabbi in it simplest terms means a respected Jewish teacher. Calling Jesus Rabbi shows what Nicodemus thought about Him. Unlike most of the other Jewish leaders, Nicodemus respected Jesus as a teacher, and even said "we know you have come from God as a teacher." Don't overlook that. It means a lot that Nicodemus has been watching Jesus, and respects Him. But, even though he doesn't hate Jesus, he is still like the average person today. Ask most people today who Jesus is, and you will get an answer like this: "I think he was sent by God, and was a pretty good guy, and taught some good things...." Nicodemus, just like most people today, does not say that Jesus is God, or the Messiah, or the Savior, or anything like that. He didn't believe that.
Nicodemus was coming to Jesus to get some questions answered. He sees Jesus as a teacher sent by God who can give them some insight into God's plan. The Jewish leaders want to know when God is sending the Messiah to get rid of the Romans and return Israel to their rightful place as the dominant power in the world. So Nicodemus shows up, and he is trying to get insight into God's plan. Now here's the thing with Jesus. Jesus always knew what everyone was going to ask even before they asked it. That's disturbing! Over and over, the Bible says "Jesus knew the hearts of men, or Jesus started telling a parable or a story, or Jesus would start teaching about their problem before they even asked a question." That's Disturbing to anyone! And even though they didn't agree with what Jesus had to say, they're thinking "How did He know? That's unbelievable!" Look back at the story, did Nicodemus ask a question before Jesus started talking? No, he was busy buttering up Jesus (or at least he thought he was) telling Him He was great, and from God... So Jesus just interrupts and says "Let me just cut to the heart of why you are here." He says "I tell you the truth." Put on your sunglasses Nicodemus. It's about to get bright. "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again."
Nicodemus responds, and I think he laughed. I don't think he was at all serious. He's thinking, there He goes. I've heard He does this. He's talking about what I came to talk about before I even talked about it. He says, "How can a man be born when he is old? Surely he can not re-enter in to his mother's womb and be born a second time, HAHAHA!. WAIT! Can He?!! I mean, that's not what you are saying is it?"
Jesus says again, "No one enters the Kingdom of God unless he is born of water and of spirit. If you are born of flesh, you are flesh. If you are born of spirit, you are spirit." This was offensive to Nicodemus. He was Jewish, and like the other Jewish people, he believed that if you were related to Abraham, you were in. And Jesus says, "that's not enough. you have to be born a 2nd time; be born from above. Unless you are, even you Nicodemus, a leader of God's people, will never see God's kingdom." Wow! Imagine getting blinded with that truth. But instead of retreating back into the darkness, Nicodemus pauses, and he realizes that there is a chance that he could have actually been wrong. What is his response? He asks (and I think he was a little panicked) "How can this be?" He's thinking: I'm not arguing, I just can't make it work in my head.
You see, Nicodemus believed like our world believes. He thought there was this cosmic scale that measures all of the good things we do against all of the bad thing we do, and as long as the good outweighs the bad, and you have more boxes in the green than you do in the red, that you are fine. You pass. You get in. Our entire world lives this way. The problem with this line of thinking is that people are trying to earn their way into heaven, but it doesn't work that way. God doesn't look at a scale when we die. Our good and bad deeds are not the basis of how we get into heaven. Nicodemus always thought "well there is a good God and a good heaven, and good people get in, and if I am a descendant of Abraham, then that like triples the weight of the good side!"
But eventually Nicodemus began to understand. He realized That Jesus wasn't trying to give him advice on what Nicodemus thought he already understood. No, Jesus was teaching him something entirely new and different. It's not "how to be good enough," it is "how to receive brand new life with meaning and purpose." That new life comes through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. Only by believing in Him can we find that new eternal life. The days of the scale are over. in fact, the scale never really worked to begin with. Honestly, if you think about the scale system long enough you will shoot so many holes in it. You'll walk away saying "I don't know if I believe in Jesus, but that scale thing doesn't even make any sense!" You will soon realize that if the scale thing is true, then somebody made it up. where are they? If it's true, where is the God who set it up? And where is the list of things that we should do to get to heaven? And if this is the system, you'll realize that the person who made it up wasn't even nice enough to give you the list of do's and don'ts.
They never explained:
- What good outweighs what bad.
- How much you have to do
- When the time runs out
- Is there a curve you are graded on?
- Is Mother Theresa good? No? Than I am in serious trouble!
Where is the standard? You can't use the Bible or the ten commandments, because this system isn't even based on that! We have to get back to the simple message of Jesus. "Not that good people go to heaven," but simply, " forgiven people go to heaven." And forgiveness is only found through the person of Jesus Christ.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Defining moments: Week 1- Opening Your Eyes
Over the next few weeks (maybe months depending on how inspired I get) I am going to be developing a lesson series called defining moments for my youth kids. Hopefully I will have the time to get them typed and uploaded each week. That is the plan anyway. My intent is to change the format so that they are more in a sermon style, than a lesson style, so if it feels like I am jumping quickly sometimes, be patient.
Week 1: Opening your eyes
If asked, We could all come up with something that we know to be 100% true. Probably several things if we sat and thought about it for a while. Examples would be things like Gravity (if I let go of this pen in my hand it will fall), or that if I smack someone for no reason, they will undoubtedly be upset with me. I am sure you could come up with a list of things that are 100% true, but I bet after you were finished, there would be nothing on your list that upset you. Why? Because we like to ignore the truths that upset us, make our lives difficult, or generally conflict with our way of life. For example, The fact that God despises the sin that you committed last night, probably did not make your list.
In this new series called defining moments we are going to be looking at some of these difficult truths to find out what we can learn from them. First let's tackle this: What is a defining moment? A defining moment is a moment in our lives when we come face to face with a truth that we, either never knew, or a truth that we have kind of purposely forgotten.
And suddenly when we are faced with this truth, our lives are transformed forever.
-Our view of relationships
-Our view of our friends
- Our view of God
- Our view of Life
- Our view of "Whatever" is changed forever
Sometimes it is a truth we have never heard before, and it instantly hits home with us. Sometimes it is a truth we were raised with, or have known for a while, And it had become an "inconvenient truth." An inconvenient truth is something that interferes with our lifestyle, or our goals and dreams. It is something that is true about our life, but we don't want to admit it. We know it is true, we just don't want to bring it front and center, because it gets in the way of the direction we selfishly want to go.
I want to tell you a story about a man named Charles. Charles is a farmer outside of Atlanta, GA. He was out on his tractor pulling a bush hog. If you don't know, a bush hog is basically an industrial sized lawn mower. It is an extension on the back of a tractor with huge blades meant to clear out a property so seeds can be replanted. Well Charles is Bush hogging his property, and he hit a bees nest. so he jumped off his tractor in a panic and left it in gear. He walked along beside it for a while until all of the bees left, and went to jump back on. He grabbed the steering wheel and went to put his foot on the step, but he missed the step and slid underneath the tractor. The last thing he said he remembered were the huge tires rolling over his legs, and they were followed by the sled with all of the blades on it. Charles knew men who had dies bush hogging properties, because, as we can plainly see, it can be very dangerous. He passed out because of the pain and the weight.
He awoke just a few seconds later, and was looking up at the sky. He said he couldn't feel his legs, and as he looked to his left he saw the bush hog disappear into a ditch and stall out. Then, almost afraid to look, he sat up, and his legs were untouched. He whispered a prayer of thanksgiving and stood up. Then he fell to his knees again, and had a worship service in the middle of his field. He stood up, took a few steps, and fell to his knees again. he got to the gravel driveway in front of his home, and he dropped to his knees and had another worship service, and thanked his Heavenly Father for a new gift of life, and a new opportunity. He went inside, and called all four of his kids and told them how much he love them. And if you were to talk to Charlie today, he would look you in the eye and tell you "I have no problems." It was a defining moment for him. The truth that life can be short, and we are not invincible was brought front and center in his life. And from this moment on, his life would never be the same.
The problem for most of us, is that there are some truths that we just really don't want to know. Mostly, because they bother us. Honestly, those of you who are in a relationship; you don't really want to know every little flaw about that person do you? "No! Don't Tell Me! LaLaLaLaLa! Leave me with the illusion that they are perfect." You have decided that this relationship is God's will for your life, and that is all that matters. The rest: "I don't want to know! I don't want to listen!" Because hearing that may mes sup my dream and my plan. so we push the truth to the side. But wouldn't it be a good idea to have all of the facts before you decide to spend the rest of your life with this person?
33They answered him, "We are Abraham's descendantsb]">[b] and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?"
34Jesus replied, "I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37I know you are Abraham's descendants. Yet you are ready to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38I am telling you what I have seen in the Father's presence, and you do what you have heard from your father.c]">[c]"
39"Abraham is our father," they answered.
"If you were Abraham's children," said Jesus, "then you wouldd]">[d] do the things Abraham did. 40As it is, you are determined to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41You are doing the things your own father does."
"We are not illegitimate children," they protested. "The only Father we have is God himself."
If you hold to My teachings, the truth will set you free. This is what Jesus tells them, and us. He doesn't simply say follow, Jesus says Hold. I think He used this word to show that it would not be an easy thing to do. The word hold symbolizes a tight grip, or a tough situation. Let's look at it this way- When you have been in a dark room for a long time, and you step out into the light, what happens? The light is almost blinding. Your eyes have adjusted to the darkness, and as soon as that light shines in, it is painful. If I were to ask you which is easier to see in, the light or the darkness... you would instantly say the light. But before you walked out, your eyes had adjusted, and you saw pretty well in the dark. and after you had been there for a while, it was probably pretty comfortable in the dark. and walking out would hurt my eyes, and it is painful, so I think I am just going to stay here in the dark where it is comfortable. The truth that Jesus reveals is often like a blinding light that hits us while we are in the darkness, and if we will just stay in the light, and hold to the truth, eventually our eyes will adjust and we will be able to see better.
Look at the encounter Jesus had with the jewish people in the temple. Jesus Told them that if they held to His teaching, the truth would set them free. What was their response? They Scoffed, and said "We are Abraham's descendants and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?" Did anyone besides me laugh a little when they read that? We've never been slaves to anyone? They are slaves to Rome at this exact moment! Not to mention the years they spent under Babylonian control! And surely they haven't forgotten abuot a little place called Egypt that Moses came and led them out of by parting th Red Sea. But their serious response was "We have never been slaves to anyone." Wow! Way to go on that one guys. Very convincing. You can't fault them too much, though. They are just blindly following their culture, just like we do. Their culture told them that, because they were Jewish, they were God's Chosen People. Meaning That They are free because of their Lineage, because "Abraham was their father." Another Distortion of the truth about God. What Jesus is telling them is that they are, in fact, just like everyone else, and that all people are going to be judged equally. What is their response? "Ooh! Oww! That is Bright! I can't handle the bright light, so I am just going to walk back into the darkness where I am more comfortable. Let me just stay here in what I believe. My reality is more comfortable than the actual truth, so I am just going to stick with it. I wonder how judgment went for those guys?
To see the truth, and embrace it, we have to step out into the light, even though it hurts for a minute. In the long run it makes it easier to see, and the ability to see clearly makes life go so much smoother. If you hold to the Teachings of Jesus, you eyes will adjust, and you will see things more clearly than you ever have before.
Over the next few weeks, we are going to look at Jesus' encounters with several different people. We'll see how it was a defining moment that changed their life if they were willing to step out of the darkness, and stepped into the light. We will see what we can learn from their experiences.
Friday, May 08, 2009
The Barbarian Way
I've really begun to notice lately that Christianity is becoming far too domesticated and civilized. Most of our churches are more focused on comfort and satisfaction than they are focused on reaching people for Christ and creating true disciples out of them. In fact it seems that Jesus is being lost in a religion bearing his name. We've lost sight of what the call of Jesus Christ looks like. We have this picture in society today that Once we become a Believer in Christ, all of our troubles and worries are supposed to disappear. Life suddenly becomes easy and carefree. All of our debts have been paid, so why do we have to do anything at all ever again? I'm justified, right? My salvation has been bought, now I want to live the life of luxury. This is the idea of Christianity that is prevalent in most American Churches today.
So Jesus took the conversation deeper. Here He warned Peter, "I tell you the truth, when you were younger you dressed yourself, and went where you wanted; but I tell you when you are old, they will stretch out your arms, and dress you, and someone else will lead you where you do not want to go." Jesus said this to him to indicate the kind of death by which Peter would glorify God. Jesus had only one invitation for Peter; only one path for Him to Chose. There was only one way for Peter to truly follow Jesus, and that was for Peter to step out of his comfort zone and lead...and eventually die. Jesus Never watered down the cost of following Him in hopes that He might fool Peter into choosing to follow Him. If Peter chose to follow Jesus, it would mean that one day he would be dragged off and killed. It Would cost him his life. And just like Peter, each of us is called to a walk with Jesus that is filled with uncertainty, mystery, and risk.
So how did Peter respond? He turned to John, the disciple closest to Jesus, and made him the focus. Peter says, "Lord, What about him?" I know what Peter is doing here. He is doing the same thing that we would do, reacting the same way we would. He's thinking "If I have to die, I want to make sure everyone else has to die, too; especially those close to You. No special treatment! That's NOT FAIR! After all, if this is a barbarian call, shouldn't it turn out the same way for all of us? Won't we all have to suffer hardship and die a brutal death? But it just doesn't work that way. Some will. Some won't.
Here is how Jesus answered him, "If I want John to remain alive until I come back, what is that to you? You must follow Me." I am sure that this angered Peter at first, and if we put ourselves in his place, it probably would have angered us, as well. But Peter is not as wise as Jesus, and neither are we. There is a reason Jesus chose this path for Peter and not for John, and it has little, if anything, to do with his love or personal feelings for either of them. It simply comes down to this. There is a plan that needs to be accomplished, and the person who will be set on course for that plan will be the person who has the best gifts to accomplish it and bring God the most glory. In this case it was Peter, not John. John's gifts were suited for a different plan.
Is it fair? Probably not. At least not by our standards. but you will never be happy or content if you turn down the path god has chosen for You.